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Family Court

This section gives you information on:

• Family Court Parent Orientation and Mediation
• How to sign up
• What happens if you don't go?

1. Family Court Parent Orientation and Mediation
   
   The law says parents who cannot agree about custody and visitation must go to mediation.
   
   In Santa Clara County, parents go to a Family Court Orientation Class first to learn about what will happen in mediation.
   
   You will get a handbook called “Kids, Court & You" that will help you get ready for your mediation. The handbook gives you information on:

   • child custody and visitation
   • child development
   • co-parenting & parallel parenting arrangements,
   • tips on how to avoid arguments
   • what happens if the parents can’t come to an agreement during mediation.

   Click here to download the Orientation handbook in English or Spanish. (PDF format)
   You must have Acrobat Reader installed on the computer to read a PDF type of file.
   Click here to download a free version of Acrobat Reader from Adobe .
   
   Our Parent Orientation and Mediation teaches parents how to:

   • Understand the needs and feelings of their children after separation.
   • Handle their own feelings in the best way possible for their children.
   • Spot warning signs in their children.
   • Separate themselves emotionally from the other parent
   • Reduce conflict with the other parent.
   • Develop new skills for getting along with the other parent.
   • Communicate appropriately with each other after separation.
   • Maintain safety in domestic violence situations.
   
   You will get information and help to create a parenting plan that works for your family. We will tell you about different types of parenting plans. You will learn how mediation helps you and the other parent to agree on a parenting plan and resolve your custody disputes. And you will get a chance to ask questions about your situation.

   The classes are free. Usually, a Family Court Services staff member teaches the class.

   If you have attended Orientation any time after July 2001, you do not need to attend again.

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2. How to sign up:
   
   The schedule for classes for Parent Orientation is:
   2nd and 4th Tuesday evenings. Call for exact times and locations.
   Friday 9 am - 12 noon
   
   The schedule for classes for Parent Orientation in Spanish is:
   2nd Tuesday of the month, 5:30 pm - 8:30 pm
   2nd Friday of the month, 1:30 pm - 4:30 pm
   
   Call for location. Class times subject to change.
   
   You must sign up before you go!
   
   Call Family Court Services
   Monday – Friday 8:30 a.m. - 4:00 p.m
   (408) 534-5600 (listen to recording and choose option for Family Court Services)
   
   If there has been domestic violence we will schedule you and the other parent to take the class at different times.
   
    
3. What happens if you don't go?
   
   The law says parents who cannot agree on custody and visitation MUST go to mediation.
   
   The court may fine you if you do not go, or if you cancel your appointment late. (See fee for "No Show/Late Cancellation fee" on the court's list of Family Court Service fees.)

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